I recently read an African proverb that says, “You don’t
become an accomplished sailor by travelling on calm seas.” I had to smile. My dad had a crazy streak in him when
it came to boating. As soon as a
small craft advisory was put into effect (translation – don’t go out on the
water!) my dad would grab his boat keys and shout, “Let’s go!” We would go out on incredibly rough
waters, getting banged up and thrown all over the place.
Now my dad also had a knack for understanding how far he
could push the weather envelope.
He never took us out so far we couldn’t quickly reach safe harbor should
the weather take an unexpected turn for the worse. There were days he would say it wasn’t safe and we would
stay put. But anything on the
rough side was his idea of a great learning opportunity.
So, I learned
how to navigate multi-directional waves, high waves, short chops and many
things in-between. I learned how
to chart a course, read the weather, when to push and when to head to shore. In short, he taught me how to become an
expert boater.
I’ve noticed my spiritual dad has that same crazy
streak. He pushes me forward when
others would say, “Stay put!” He’ll
put me in situations I think are beyond my ability to handle, but then he
guides me through the challenge, helping me emerge on the other side wiser and
more seasoned.
I don’t always understand what the lesson is when we’re
starting out together. Sometimes
he just hands me the wheel and lets me have a turn, guiding me through my
mistakes and celebrating my victories.
Over time, he teaches me to become accomplished at living life,
navigating through all of its moods and seasons with confidence.
While I would hardly classify myself as an expert at life, I smile
because I know that’s my dad’s vision for me. And he has taught me with him by my side I can navigate
anything. Knowing that, I can
enter the waters of life with confidence.
For further thought: “When you go
through deep waters and great trouble, I will be with you. When you go through
rivers of difficulty, you will not drown! When you walk through the fire of
oppression, you will not be burned up—the flames will not consume you. For I am the Lord your God, your Savior …” (Is.
43:2-3, TLB). Are you facing any
rough seas right now? What is God
trying to help you learn about yourself in this challenge? Feel free to post!
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